Arrangements for Children and Parental Responsibility

 

When parents separate, the focus should be on what works for the children, not winning an argument.

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Talk to a member of our family law team with no obligation. We will give you a clear picture of your options before you commit to anything.

Keeping children at the centre of every decision

Decisions about where children live, who they spend time with, and how the big decisions about their upbringing are made are among the most important any parent can face. They are also among the most emotional.

Wherever possible, these arrangements are best made between parents directly, or with the help of a mediator, without the need for court.

But when that is not possible, or when there are welfare concerns, the family court can make orders to resolve the dispute.

Our family law team helps parents across Staffordshire and the West Midlands reach practical, workable arrangements for their children, always with the children's welfare at the centre of the advice we give.

What we can help with

Parenting plans, setting out day-to-day arrangements clearly

Parental responsibility: who has it and how to obtain it

Child Arrangements Orders

Prohibited Steps Orders

Specific Issue Orders (schooling, medical treatment, religion)

Urgent applications, child abduction, relocation

Grandparent applications

Advice on CAFCASS involvement and Social Services and court ordered reports

Get in touch to enquire about arrangements for children

Tell us what you need and we'll put you in touch with the right person.

 

The process for resolving children's arrangements

Court should always be the last resort

Going to court over children is expensive, slow, and damaging to the co-parenting relationship. Most arrangements can be agreed through direct negotiation or mediation. We always explore every alternative before recommending court proceedings.

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NDCR

Parties must consider non court dispute resolution (NCDR). This often involves attendance at a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM)
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Negotiation

We help you negotiate practical arrangements directly with the other parent, or through a mediator, wherever possible.
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Parenting plan

Agreed arrangements are documented in a written parenting plan, covering where the children live, contact arrangements, and key decisions about their upbringing.

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Court (if needed)

If agreement cannot be reached, we apply for a Child Arrangements Order. The court applies the welfare checklist and the child's welfare is the paramount consideration.

Understanding parental responsibility and Children Act orders

Parental responsibility (PR) is the legal authority to make decisions about a child's upbringing. Not every parent automatically has it, and understanding who has PR and what it means is an important first step.

Key things you should know

  • Mothers automatically have parental responsibility.
  • Fathers have PR if they are married to the mother, or named on the birth certificate for births registered after 1 December 2003.
  • Unmarried fathers not on the birth certificate can acquire PR through a Parental Responsibility Agreement or court order.
  • A Child Arrangements Order specifies where a child lives and who they spend time with. The court applies the welfare checklist in Section 1 of the Children Act 1989.
  • CAFCASS carries out safeguarding checks and speaks to the parents and children, where appropriate, in most contested cases and may prepare a Child Impact Report with recommendations for the court.

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Children's welfare first, always

Every piece of advice we give is framed around what is best for the children, not just what the parent wants.

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Negotiated outcomes where possible

Going to court over children can be expensive and stressful. We help parents reach an agreement without court wherever we can.

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MIAM and mediation support

We advise on the MIAM requirement and can refer you to accredited mediators where mediation is appropriate.

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Urgent and emergency applications

Where a child's safety is at risk, we can make emergency applications to the court, sometimes the same day.

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Expertise in complex cases

Relocation applications, cases involving CAFCASS and welfare concerns.

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Clear, honest advice

We will tell you what the court is likely to think, not just what you want to hear.

Need help agreeing arrangements for your children?

Talk to our family law team. We will help you find the most practical route forward for you and your children.

Frequently asked questions

If you are unsure where to start, the FAQs below cover the questions we hear most often. Our Family Law team is on hand if you want to talk through anything specific.

 

Simply give us a call on 0121 716 3716

Do I need a court order to agree arrangements for my children?

No. Most parents reach arrangements informally between themselves or with the help of mediation. A formal court order is only needed if parents cannot agree, or if one parent wants to formalise an arrangement in a legally binding way.

What is a Child Arrangements Order?

A Child Arrangements Order is a court order made under the Children Act 1989. It sets out where a child lives and who they spend time with. Previously these were called residence orders and contact orders.

How does the court decide what is best for the children?

The court applies the welfare checklist in Section 1 of the Children Act 1989. This includes the child's wishes and feelings according to their age, their physical, emotional, and educational needs, the likely effect of any change, and any risk of harm. The child's welfare is the court's paramount consideration.

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Serving clients across Staffordshire and the West Midlands

Ansons has offices in Lichfield, Cannock, Sutton Coldfield and Dudley. All four cover family law. Choose an office below for local contact details, or read more about our family law service in each town.

Our head office is at St Mary's Chambers on Breadmarket Street, in the centre of the city. We advise clients across Lichfield, Burntwood, Shenstone, Alrewas and Fradley.

Family law solicitors in Lichfield

St Mary's Chambers,
5-7 Breadmarket Street, Lichfield, Staffordshire, WS13 6LQ

T: 01543 263 456
E: info@ansons.law

Commerce House is on Ridings Park, just off Eastern Way, with free parking on site. We advise clients across Cannock, Hednesford, Heath Hayes, Norton Canes and Rugeley.

Family law solicitors in Cannock

Commerce House, Ridings Park, Eastern Way, Cannock, Staffordshire, WS11 7FJ

T: 01543 466 660
E: info@ansons.law

Our office is on Lichfield Road at Mere Green, within reach of Four Oaks, Little Aston, Streetly, Boldmere and the north Birmingham suburbs. Appointments in person or by video.

Family law solicitors in Sutton Coldfield

316-318 Lichfield Road, Mere Green, Sutton Coldfield, West Midlands, B74 2UG

T: 0121 716 3716
E: info@ansons.law

Castle Court is on Castlegate Way, just off the ring road. We advise clients across Dudley, Netherton, Sedgley, Brierley Hill, Kingswinford, Halesowen and Stourbridge.

Family law solicitors in Dudley

Unit 10, Castle Court 2, Castlegate Way, Dudley, DY1 4RH

T: 0121 550 0010
E: info@ansons.law